“Our hair is rarely allowed to be free because of this reason. Black people can’t wake up and leave their hair the way that it is. It requires time and effort. The “messy” look became a fashion trend in recent years, but unfortunately, black women and girls, and boys, with afro hair were often excluded from this trend.”
Article source: https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/do-we-have-unrealistic-hair-standards-in-the-black-community_uk_6408a7f0e4b0c0a42a732f18